I have seen and heard different categories of friendship relationship, which may MAR and MADE someone’s life.
I knew of a lady whom was influenced by friends to at least have a boyfriend, the friends didn’t tell her how they do their things with the guys they are hooking up with, she ended up being pregnant for the guy which cost her not to finish her high school.
The irony of it is that when they introduced you to any act and they discovered that you are in, they will let you bear the pains and burdens in it alone and you will ended up regretting because they will not teach you how they do go about doing their things.
There’s a whole lot of pains, problems, joy and happiness in friendship at the same time cares needs to be taken while walking with friends and the kind of friend one’s make.
There’s a popular saying that says “show me your friend and I will tell you whom he/she is”. This same statement had changed now to “show me your friend and I will tell you how your future will looks like”
THE PROBLEMS AND PAINS OF BAD FRIENDSHIP
The danger of having a bad friends are numerous. Having a lust and bastardised friends in your life can have a strong negative impact.
There are several signs that show you are in a bad relationship or keeping a bad friendship relationship. The superior of it is peer pressure.
They negatively influence you in forming and acting in various bad characters, habits and lifestyle. Which are:
- Gossiping about other friends
- Gambling and spending the money you don’t have
- Making choices or decisions that will hurt you and your family
- Engaging in illicit or illegally acts
- Forming cliques
- Drinking, smoking or taking drugs
- Bullying others
- Absenting yourself from school without any cogent reasons
- Keeping boyfriend and girlfriend
All the aboved mentioned initiation of bad friends can leads to a dead end which might result in devastating and destructive career and future ambitions. It could turn you to a school dropout just like the lady whom got pregnant for a guy while she was in high school, drug addict,vagabond, and the most painful part is that it will cost you future and eternal Joy for living.
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THE PERSONALITY AND PICTURE OF A TRUE FRIEND
The joy that over flows and runneth over is to have someone in your life that can be there for you in all season. Someone who cares like no other. Someone who understands and share your joy or pain. Someone who gives hope and assurance of a brighter tomorrow and a glorious future. Someone who gives you focus and purpose for living.